How far along: 28 weeks How much do I weigh: 56,7 kg (+ 7kg) Baby size: 1,2 kg Belly size: The circumference (2cm under the belly button) is 97 cm and from top to bottom itβs 36 cm
Belly button in or out: even Sleep: quite good. I haven’t had a full night of sleep since 3 years so, that’s how it is now too. Food (non) cravings: nothing really Symptoms: Feels like baby’s butt or head is always pushing its way down, pimples on my back, lower back pain (not so often) Maternity clothes: always, everything. Panties, pants, bra, tops. Just my socks and boots are non-maternity π Stretch marks: none, I think? Linea negra: not yet Miss anything: I miss not worrying about what I eat when. I’m lucky that I don’t have gestational diabetes yet the doctor said I should stop eating white flour completely. Looking forward to: every free minute Best happenings this week: Big ultrasound yesterday and I finally got a photo again. Baby is laying with its head down, everything is fine. It moved a lot and had a hiccups
Movement: lots, I feel everything Gender: hmm… yesterday in the ultrasound it really showed its gender so good and I hoped that the doctor would say “well look at this boy/girl”… but no. I was so close to saying we DO want to know the gender now but I didn’t. Still going to be a surprise. Happy or moody most of the time: Depends on if I’m hungry, sleepy, if my son does what I ask him to do, if my bubby does what I ask him to do… depends on all those things Sports: In the gym twice a week, treadmill for 30 minutes and lifting weights (chest, back & legs)
How far along: 26 weeks 2 days How much do I weigh: 56,4 kg (+6,7 kg) Baby size: Length: about 14 inches; weight: almost 2 pounds. Belly size: The circumference (2cm under the belly button) is 97 cm and from top to bottom itβs 36 cm (have to measure tomorrow morning)
Belly button in or out: in and out Sleep: so so Food (non) cravings: pickles Symptoms: Can’t breathe so good, it feels like the head or popo of the baby are pushing its way down, heartburn Maternity clothes: Day and night Stretch marks: none Miss anything: sweets Looking forward to: always looking forward to the next gyn appointment. Right now I’m looking forward on going to the diabetology in a week to find out if I have gestational diabetes or not. Best happenings this week: New Years and spending time with Oma and Opa, spending time with my boy every day Movement: lots lots lots Gender: I still think it’s a boy. My bubby has a brother. My bubby’s brother has two boys. My sister has two boys. My friends all have two kids of the same sex (only one has one of each), so… this is why I think we’re having another boy.
Two colleagues think it’s a girl, mainly because of my “flat” belly (how is this even possible?) and because my blood results during pregnancy were good.
My dad swung – a girl.
My bubby thinks it’s going to be a girl.
My sister dreamt it’s a girl.
My other sister thinks it’s a boy.
My mom thinks it’s a boy. Happy or moody most of the time: Happy Sports: None atm due to the Christmas vacation and not being home
How far along: 24 weeks How much do I weigh: 54,5 kg (+4,8 kg) Baby size: eggplant Belly size: The circumference (2cm under the belly button) is 92 cm and from top to bottom itβs 34 cm
Belly button in or out: the top is sticking out Sleep: Okay Food (non) cravings: sugar Symptoms: my sacral bone is moving apart every now and again, it feels like baby’s head will push out any minute… things like that. My skin is better, not anymore so many pimples on my back, headache is better Maternity clothes: Daily Stretch marks: none Miss anything: nothing really Looking forward to: my next appointment tomorrow Best happenings this week: I’m finally off work until January 8th 2018 π Movement: yup, mainly on the right bottom side Gender: I say baby is a boy. Happy or moody most of the time: Both π I’m quite bit**y at times, esp. when I’m hungry Sports: Still going to the gym when I have time (haven’t been in two weeks because I got a cold)
How far along: 18 weeks How much do I weigh: 52,5 kg (+2,8 kg) Baby size: little pepper Belly button in or out: half/half Sleep: Okay Food (non) cravings: No cravings, just hungry Symptoms: Headache every now and again
How far along: 19 weeks 3 days How much do I weigh: 52,5 kg (+2,8 kg) Baby size: mango
Belly button in or out: half/half, more out when I have just eaten Sleep: Okay, sometimes I’m awake for hours but that’s because I think of my work-problems and not because of the pregnancy Food (non) cravings: No cravings Symptoms: Same, headache every now and again, pain in my uterus, gas Maternity clothes: always Stretch marks: none Miss anything: alcohol at times π Looking forward to: My big sonography this and next week Best happenings this week: Seeing Baby-Q heal from his caugh Movement: I think I feel some movement but then a few minutes later I have to fart… so I’m not sure. Gender: hmmm Happy or moody most of the time: both π Sports: I try to go to the gym twice a week
During my first pregnancy, there have been a few comments from others that worried me or just made me think “WTF?!”. Here are some where I just nodded and smiled (or not).
I hope you’ll have a girl
That’s sweet, but why would you hope that and what is so bad about having a boy?
Girls are so much less complicated
Thanks, we’re having a boy, what do you know about them?
Aw, you’re having a boy? Well maybe the next one will be a girl.
I don’t know but I felt this is a rude thing to say. It’s like “yay, you’re pregnant, oh but damn, you’re pregnant with a boy, that sucks, I’m sorry you’re pregnant (with a boy).
Wow, your belly is huge
What size should it have?
When I was as far as you I was much smaller
That’s nice for you. I’m about two feet smaller and totally different built than you, so I guess every woman’s body may be different?
You’ll never get your old body back
That word never, how much I dislike it!
Anything concerning the way or what I eat
Let’s just keep it simple – I know I don’t have to eat for two and I know always eating healthy is the best thing you can do.
Did you run up the stairs? Are you running?
This goes to my bubby. No, I did not run up the 50 stairs to our apartment and no, I’m not running for a walk. I’m just carrying about 25+ more pounds than usual which makes me breathe harder than usual. Why do you always ask me that?!
*note: I’m in my 5th week, which means I’m 4 weeks, x days pregnant. 13th week = 12 weeks x days*
I cannot believe it! I am pregnant, how cool and super awesome is that?! π π
I made my first pregnancy-test on Friday, July 18th at 04:30 in the morning (I woke up so early and couldn’t really get back to sleep – I knew I was overdue).
I missed my period for 1 or two days already and Friday was a “safe” day. So I got up because I couldn’t wait any longer, went to the bathroom and peed on the stick and my hands were shaking, that’s how nervous I was. Then, after 3 minutes of waiting – P R E G N A N T
I couldn’t believe it. The only clue I had that I might be pregnant was my missing period and no bleeding before my period, which is not normal for me at all.
I didn’t have pain in my boobs, I didn’t have this “pulling feeling” in my abdomen, I had no pre-pregnancy feelings. I know so many people who said “I felt that I’m pregnant right away”, well, not me. I actually thought I’d get my period seeing I had PMS symptoms.
I went back to bed after making the test all squirrelly and couldn’t sleep anymore, so at 6am the bubby and I got up for work. I didn’t tell him the results in the morning because I wanted to make another test just to be sure.
So, Friday afternoon I made another test. Still positive. In the evening the bubby and I went biking to a beer-garden nearby and that’s when I told him. He was so happy and hugged me, but also couldn’t believe it at first – he looked at me all “seriously?”. I knew he goes on a big bike tour the next day so I knew that he’d have time to realize it then.
We were/are both so happy and overwhelmed that it happened right the first time we tried, especially when having some friends where it took 6 months to many years until they got pregnant. You never know π
And with “first time we tried” I mean we had fun every other night the two weeks where I thought I might be ovulating. Well, not always every other night, but in two weeks we had fun six times π
Week 5 – 7
The days passed and I still didn’t really feel the typical symptoms. When going to work by train and reading a book I did have to stop after a few minutes though because I got a little sick. Sometimes I felt a little sting in my abdomen and every now and again I felt a little dizzy. But all those symptoms were very rare.
7th week
How far along: 6 weeks, 1 day How much do I weigh: 48,8 kg Belly size: The usual fat-bump Belly button in or out: In Sleep: Not so good Food (non) cravings: Nothing special Symptoms: Sometimes it feels like I’m having PMS Maternity clothes: Nooo Stretch marks: I hope not! Miss anything: To know that my baby is doing ok. Looking forward to: The first Ultrasound! Best happenings this week: It’s the first week of August and I’m in my 7th week, starting my 8th week in a few days.
I had my first doctor’s appointment on Friday, August 1st 2014.
I got blood taken, they measured my blood pressure, I had to go on the scale.
Then I got to see my doctor and get my first ultrasound. My boyfriend came with me (he’s still a little in shock after he had to witness me spreading my legs on the OB-chair and getting different tools put in me… I should have warned him, he probably didn’t know I’m getting a vaginal ultrasound) and we saw our 3,5mm little baby girl or boy and the heart beat. What an amazing moment!
I was so happy to see it right in the middle of my uterus and not somewhere in the fallopian tube. And after my OB said that you can see the pulsation which is the heart beat I, as a future mom, had tears in my eyes, that’s clear π
My doctor told me everything I should watch out for (the food I shouldn’t eat, the “powerful” sports I shouldn’t do anymore *sigh*, infections etc.) and then I got my mother’s pass.
It tracks the process of the pregnancy and it’s got all the information of every visit to the OB and the baby’s due date.
Baby’s first set due date: March 21st 2015.
Now I’m “officially” a mom, black on white π I’m so happy.
Now I can tell my parents the awesome news! At the moment I have to watch out so much what I say when I’m talking to them on the phone so I can’t wait to get it out!
Everybody else (well, not sure about my sisters) will hear of my pregnancy when I’m in my 13th week (that’s why I’m publishing this post first now), when the first trimester is over and our baby is well and healthy and growing!
My next appointment is on August 29th, 2014. Movement: None Gender: No thoughts on that, I just wanted to see the little peanut’s heartbeat which I did π Happy or moody most of the time: Happy Sports: Not much, some weight lifting and crunches. I’m too scared though and first wanted to hear what my OB says about it.
8th Week
How far along: 7 weeks 5 days How much do I weigh: 48,8 kg Belly size: It’s the same, pretty much. I don’t pull my belly in so much anymore and all these years I looked like I’m pregnant in month 5 after eating a meal π I’ll make photos as soon my third month starts which is in TWO DAYS! Belly button in or out: In Sleep: Not as good as usual Food (non) cravings: I still eat pretty much everything, the only things I don’t eat are products with raw milk. I don’t eat any sweets either, just cake if it’s an occasion. Everything I’ve eaten before still quickens my appetite, yet I noticed I’m not so in the mood for yoghurt anymore. I used to eat a lot of fruit with yoghurt, now I prefer veggies with cottage cheese. I eat a bigger lunch at work than I used to – cut up veggies with cottage cheese, baked beans and couscous. Symptoms: I feel a bit of morning sickness now and again. Last week I called in sick to work though. I was at the train station, waiting for my train which was at least 20+ minutes late already. I was reading while standing. All of the sudden everything got black and I saw stars, I had to sit down. That feeling wouldn’t go away so I jumped on my bike and drove home. Called in sick seeing I wasn’t sure if it’s just a temporary thing or if it comes back. Had a nice day, reading on the couch π (and also working from home a bit). My boobs hurt, too. Maternity clothes: Not yet, sometimes I wish though Stretch marks: Nope Miss anything: Ice-cream and Sushi Looking forward to: The next OB appointment Best day of the week: Telling my parents – The bubby and I invited my parents for BBQ on Sunday (7w3d) and we clinked our beer-glasses (I had non-alcoholic) and then I announced I’m pregnant. I noticed before when I was cutting some meet that I was shaking so I knew I had to get it out soon because I can’t keep it a secret any longer.
My parents both were sitting there with their mouth open, not saying a word, then my mom yelled out “I knew it (or I had that feeling or something like that)” and then they both were very excited for me. I’m the baby of the family and with me they’ll have 1+ grandchildren from each daughter so of course they’re super excited!
Just like the bubby and me they first really realized it the next day π Movement: Nope Gender: At the moment I feel it’s a girl, it’s just, I automatically call the baby “she” or “her” (I don’t like to say “it”). That might change though and I might call the baby “he” soon π
I just think with my obsession for Hello Kitty a girl would be quite nice as I could live out my passion on her hrhr… but then I think well maybe the guy up in the sky thinks it’s a punishment if I get a girl so he’ll give me a boy so that I calm down a bit from that girly stuff π (my theory, yes yes) Happy or moody most of the time: I forget to blog about my little peanut because I sooo don’t feel pregnant. Very happy though. Got my teeth checked – all good there. I’m taking my folic acid every day and I don’t worry that much π Sports: I still lift weights, I just don’t train my abs anymore. Yet seeing my boobs start to hurt more and more I decided to stop making machines where I have to lean against something with my belly and boobs. I quit jogging and instead I am going walking. I’m not a big fan of walking yet it’s better than doing nothing. And it’s nice to walk through the forest.
I bike to work 17km and back if the weather is good. I watch my heartbeat more and don’t “power myself out” like I used to do.
9th Week
How far along: 8 weeks 0 days How much do I weigh: 48,6 kg Belly size: Just the regular 5-month baby bump after I eat π So no, no bump yet. Well, that bump you see I assume is fat. I always have a bit of a bump, so… but maybe it’s also my uterus which is double the size now π That’s the problem with my baby-bump-photos – also when I’m not pregnant I have a fat-bump so… oh well.
Belly button in or out: In Sleep: Still not so good. I wake up because I have to pee and I’m not normally a side-sleeper but a belly sleeper but my boobs hurt too much for that. Food (non) cravings: I am totally craving meat! I don’t eat a lot of it but sometimes I could eat a whole pig. Symptoms: A little morning sickness, not sleeping too well. Boobies are hurting. Maternity clothes: Nope Stretch marks: Nope Miss anything: Talking to people about my pregnancy Looking forward to: Can’t wait for the first trimester to be over so that I can finally tell people and talk about my pregnancy with my sisters. At least I can talk about it with my mom and dad π Best happenings this week: Thursday, the day my third month started, was the best. Movement: Nope Gender: So, bubby and I lie on the couch, I have my head on his lap, out of the blue he says “I think we’re having a girl” – I ask him why he thinks so, he says he has the feeling he produces girls. Five minutes later he says that I’m double as bitchy so there has to be a girl in me… pffffff! Happy or moody most of the time: So happy to be starting my third month. It’s a weird feeling though – you don’t see a belly and you don’t feel anything – it seems like I’m not pregnant and then, sometimes I start worrying if everything’s ok, if she is growing, if she’s still living in me, if she’s healthy… yeah, it’s weird. I’ll be happy when there’s a baby-bump. So happy and just the regular bitchy-ness π Sports: Weight Lifting & Crosstrainer & 1 hour Walking
Training I
Cross-Trainer 10 Minutes
Bent-Over Row 3 x 10 x 7,5 kg
Pull-Up 3 x 10 x 70/60
Calf Raise 3 x 10
Leg-Press 3 x 10 x 40/50 kg
Biceps Curl 3 x 10 x 4/5 kg
Triceps Kick 3 x 10 x 2 kg
Training II – Strength Circuit
Cross-Trainer 10 Minutes
Leg Curl 2 x 20 x 15 kg
Chest Press 2 x 20 x 15 kg
Lower Back 2 x 20 x 26 kg
Leg Extension 2 x 20 x 12 kg
Lat Pulldown 2 x 20 x 21 kg
Gluteus 2 x 20 x 22 kg
10th Week
How far along: 9 weeks 0 days How much do I weigh: 49,1 kg (I ate pretty much this week) Belly size: Still nada, I’d say. Well, maybe a bit. My uterus should be the size of a tennisball now. Just my regular fat-bump and a lot of food in me which makes my belly stick out no matter if I’m pregnant or not. Also I don’t tone my belly muscles anymore and just let it grow π
I started weight-lifting again and hoping to build a bit of muscle, so I might gain weight because of that. I need to tell that to my doctor, the first time they took my weight was after my 4-week beach & surf vacation where I hardly ate during the day, didn’t do weight-lifting and lost two kilos!
Belly button in or out: In Sleep: The usual Food (non) cravings: Meat Symptoms: Hardly any, still the boobs though. I feel quite bloated after I eat. 6-month-belly after food-consumption. Maternity clothes: Nope Stretch marks: Nope, I put oil on my belly, thighs and boobs once or twice a day though. Miss anything: Eating more sweets! I also miss jogging, getting my heartbeat up high and sweating during sports. Looking forward to: The next OB appointment on August 29th 2014!! Best happenings this week: I was very happy to sell some of my Canon DSLR lenses and camera to get some extra money for rain boots and a new tiny Sony Alpha 6000 (with video so that next year when the baby’s here I can post a lot of videos). *kidding* Movement: Nope Gender: Seeing I’m craving meat now I think I’m getting a boy. A big boy π Happy or moody most of the time: Happy and nervous because of my next OB appointment soon! Sports: Weight lifting
11th Week
How far along: 10 weeks 4 days (it’s Friday, normally I’d be 10w1d but I just came home from the OB and the baby is 3,8mm and I’m 10w4d which means I’m starting my 12th week on Monday, Sep 1st 2014 – yay!) How much do I weigh: 49,3 kg Belly size: When I eat it’s a big bump, when I don’t eat it’s just my regular fat-bump
Belly button in or out: In Sleep: Getting a bit better, I still need to pee once a night though, between 3 and 4 am. Ok, no, I’m taking that back – so yesterday “night” I went to bet at 10pm dead tired, woke up at 2:30 am and was awake until at least 4am!!! And I couldn’t read or anything because the bubby was sleeping save and sound next to me. Food (non) cravings: The usual – craving for everything Symptoms: going to the toilet a lot, but that’s nothing too new seeing I drink 3+ Liter at work Maternity clothes: No, my jeans are open pretty much all the time though, especially after I ate and when I sit. I can’t wait to wear some though, they look so comfy (even if you’re not pregnant). Stretch marks: I found one on my thigh but I’m not sure if I had that before or not… oh, it’s gone now… Miss anything: No, very happy! Looking forward to: Telling my boyfriend the news my OB just told me 4 hours ago. Best happenings this week: Seeing the little (or should I say big) peanut again
I had a OB appointment on Friday, I was very nervous. I sat with my OB and she told me that all the blood results are good and all the other tests are good as well. I got tested negative for Toxoplasmosis though so I should be careful with eating raw meat and fish and veggies from the garden.
She made the second ultrasound and I could see the little peanut. She showed me that peanut grew two nice arms, that the peanut is 3,8mm long and has a good heartbeat (160 whoa). Everything looks fine, also my female body parts.
Spent the weekend with my parents and sisters, it was lovely. We went out to eat and chatted a lot (my mom and me). I told my sisters about my pregnancy on Sunday and it was a blast. I told my best friend, who’s having a baby in October, right after my doctor’s appointment. π Movement: Baby was sleeping (no, I really don’t know) during the ultrasound but it showed us two arms π and of course a giant head. I don’t feel any movement. Gender: Undecided at the moment. Happy or moody most of the time: I was bitchy a few times last week, but I’m happy most of the time. Sports: I didn’t do too much this week. Too much going on atm. The sports I did was cardio-training, I wasn’t in the mood at all for lifting weight.
12th Week
How far along: 11 weeks, 1 day How much do I weigh: 48,8 kg Belly size: The fat-bump is never leaving me…
Belly button in or out: In Sleep: It’s ok, the bubby is on vacation and I sleep the whole night, sometimes. It’s nice to have the whole bed for myself π Food (non) cravings: No cravings. Now I try to eat smaller portions over the whole day seeing my belly is just so huge after I eat. I’m running around with a long scarf at work but now the weather is getting warmer again, my co-workers will ask me if I’m sick. Well, I did have a craving for warm food at night so I made noodles instead of eating bread or just salad. Yesterday I had Mexican for lunch (Quesedillas), so good and it kept me filled the rest of the day. Symptoms: I feel bloated after I eat and also not that good. I cannot drink so much (I hardly get through 2 liters at work) because I feel a bit sick after I drink. Maternity clothes: Nope Stretch marks: Nope Miss anything: Not really, no. Looking forward to: Telling EVERYBODY (well, not everybody) next week and making it official! Best happenings this week: Mexican Lunch π No, well, nothing big happened this week, the weather was grey in grey which made me feel bleh. The bubby and I met with my best friend (who’s high pregnant) and her boyfriend for BBQ on Saturday eve – it was nice, I could ask my friend lots of questions and the gave me a bellyband which is sooo great. I ran around the city on Friday and looked for one but most of the shops here don’t have maternity clothes!! I was quite pi**ed. We told my parents-in-law on Sunday π Movement: Nope Gender: Undecided Happy or moody most of the time: Happy Sports: Nothing. Either I’m just lazy or what… the weather is terrible here, grey in grey so after work I just want to get home and cuddle on the couch and watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Really really not in the mood for the gym this week.
13th Week
How far along: 12 weeks, 5 days How much do I weigh: 48,8 kg Belly size: the same, nothing to see in the morning, just after I ate
Belly button in or out: In Sleep: I normally wake up around 5 or 5:30 am. Didn’t wake up in the middle of the night for a few days. Ok, yesterday night I woke up at 2 am and am pretty sure I didn’t go back to sleep before 3:30 am. Food (non) cravings: Normal cravings. Symptoms: I sometimes have a stabbing pain in my belly where I just assume that the baby is either moving or growing π Maternity clothes: Belly Bands!! Stretch marks: Nope Miss anything: A flat belly. As I eat more at work and don’t do anything for my belly it’s bigger than usual of course, for me at least. Only my co-workers who know I work out see a little belly. Looking forward to: Seeing my baby again next Thursday. Best happenings this week: We told A LOT of people (well, I did). On Tuesday I told my uncle, my big boss, my two little bosses, some co-workers.
On Wednesday I told it to some more co-workers, they’re all very happy (most of them have kids themselves) and we chatted LONG. We also called my boyfriend’s brother and family and they screamed in the phone from all the excitement π It was a week with a lot of talking.
On Thursday I told it to another co-worker who was my first tutor at the company and on Friday I told it to my unit-boss.
On Saturday I told my best friend. I know he doesn’t really want kids (atm) so I didn’t know if he’ll be happy for me or not. I showed him my last sonography photo and said “I’m gonna be a mom”. He was surprised but very happy which made me happy π We then went to “all you can eat Sushi and more” and I put on my maternity pants for the first time, haha. Good that I took my weekly baby bump photo the morning before because the morning after I ate all I can eat I weighed almost 1kg more. On Sunday I told one of my other best friends that I’m expecting, actually I just said “I need to tell you something” and she said “you’re pregnant!” – it was cute π Movement: Nope Gender: A lot of people at work think I’m getting a girl (because of my love for Hello Kitty and pink), it’s cute. The bubby is sure it’s going to be a girl. I’m not so sure. Happy or moody most of the time: Very happy, second trimester, here I come! Sports: I started my regular courses and just watched my heartbeat. My trainer from the course “power dumbbell” came up to me and asked if everything was ok (seeing I didn’t jump around as usual) and I told him I’m pregnant and he was like “ooh, ooooh…” and then told me what I should watch out for. It’s nice that I can tell now! Exciting.
My first Trimester – Subsumption
All in all I can say my first trimester went great. I didn’t suffer from any of the typical symptoms you read about, where I started to wonder if my pregnancy is normal, seeing you hardly read that it’s also possible to just have a great first trimester. I have some problems with my circulation, I fainted once (in the train – I didn’t eat or drink before and I was standing) and almost fainted another time, where I could at least sit down though.
I told my OB the beginning of the year that we’d like to start trying this year, I checked all my immunizations and sometime in the spring I started taking folic acid daily and writing down exactly when I get my period.
Luckily, we got pregnant very fast (I couldn’t be more thankful!), I had my first OB appointment in my 7th week and you could already see the heartbeat. I had a dentist appointment one week later to get my teeth checked, I was told that an important thing to do in the beginning of a pregnancy.
My second appointment was in my 11th week where the baby grew from 3,5 mm to almost 4 cm.
I had to get my blood taken a few days after for the Nuchal scan of the baby, which will be in my 14th week.
I cut down on sports as of watching my heartbeat and not doing any abs exercises. I also don’t eat products with raw milk, raw fish, raw meet, raw eggs, ice cream and I watch my sugar consumption. Of course I don’t drink alcohol or smoke, but I didn’t do that before anyway (well, ok, as I got pregnant on vacation I did drink a lot there, as of week 5 (4w0d) I stopped with alcohol completely).